I think it's fair to say when we see a dog with their tail tucked between their legs we know that dog is scared and/or nervous.  Most often those dogs are quite sensitive to various sounds and movements.  What I don't think most owners are aware of is that dogs that lunge or are aggressive are more sensitive than the scared dogs.  This sensitivity has just manifested itself to look differently than the scared dog.  By lunging a dog has learned they can create a lot of space around themselves which in turn makes them feel comfortable.  The dog that lunges can by hyper sensitive to anyone approaching their space which turns into a big loud display to make themselves look bigger and more intimidating.  Instead of the loud display the nervous and scared dog will often use "flight" as their defense to create space to make themselves feel better.  In both cases, the dogs feel they must make a decision because it has worked for them at some time in the past.  Once they figure out if they keep repeating the process they get what they want, then that behavior can turn into an "auto-pilot" reaction. 


If either of these cases sounds like a dog you have it's important to look at your dog's day through their eyes, yes all 24 hours!  It might give you a better idea of how and why they think.  With dogs that are very sensitive I focus on calming activities like massage, walks, treadmill, or leash handling without commands.  To me, the quieter you communicate with a dog like this the better the relationship can become as it's more primal.  When dogs communicate there are no commands or treats, just intensity, body language, and eye contact.  Go back to working with your dog's instincts and you will end up with a dog that feels more comfortable with their environment.   

Importance of Down Time


Often times we see dogs that are too over-stimulated which can manifest itself in seeing a dog that is hyper.  Most owners will think that dog will need more exercise when in actuality that dog needs the opposite, more down time.  Some dogs have the ability to regulate themselves while some do not and that's where we step in.  For the dogs that can't regulate we will take the time put the dog in a crate or a kennel so they have the chance to rest their brain and body.  Think of a young toddler that doesn't get enough sleep or misses nap time, they can be very difficult to deal with.  If you have a dog that seems hyper or maybe a new puppy, down time is going to be your best friend.  Go ahead and take your dog for a walk, play with them, or have a training session with them but keep it somewhere between 15 - 30 minutes.  After the session put your dog in a crate or tether them to something in the house where they can get some much needed rest.  Give them a 1-2 hours to rest and repeat the process again.  At the end of the day you will have created a structure that your dog will love! 

Separation Anxiety

I remember when I first started out as a trainer it seemed like the majority of the calls I was getting from clients had to do with separation anxiety.  You know what it looks like, your dog follows you around the house not wanting you to get out of sight and some cases get pretty extreme.  I've heard of people sitting on the couch at night and they get up to go to the bathroom and their dog follows them the entire way right into the bathroom with them.  If the owner shut the door to keep them out the dog would scratch and claw at the door, I can't imagine living like that.  My strategy then was to make sure the dog got plenty of exercise to tire them out and to make sure the dog was walked correctly. 


Fast forward about 10 years and I now understand the importance of impulse control.  This is a "game changer" in my mind, this will put many different aspects of your relationship with your dog into one training session from control to relaxation to reward. This is an excellent exercise for dogs that lunge, get excited by touch, or just have a hard time sitting still.  We now teach impulse control to all of our training clients and some of it's successes have been substantial.  One recent case was an owner who had their dog follow her around the house from the basement to the top floor of the house.  After just 2 weeks of doing this exercise once a day (only 15-30 minutes a time), the dog now stays on the main level of the house while the owner can go to the basement.  These are amazing results that can be duplicated with just a little bit of work on your end. 

Below is a link to an Impulse Control video with a dog named Brady that I trained last fall.  This is the first time Brady had experienced a session like this and the video has not been edited.  Practice this exercise with your dog at home for 2 weeks, I think you will be quite happy with the results.